Postby Rodgeirr » Mon Nov 30, 2015 6:32 pm
Well Gents,
I figured I would offer my opinion on this matter. The main reason we are all here (well most of us) is because we've either been a victim of some A-Hole, or have read or been told horror stories of people who have been victims and do not wish to suffer the same fate. My preference is PVE, always has and always will be. I avoid CZ's in the group for this reason, and below is my reason why.
I'm old enough to realize that when I play to have fun, it does not involve PVP in any form. For this particular game I want to pilot my ship around the galaxy, trading and blowing up NPC's. The only time other players factor into the equation is when I want the camaraderie of taking on NPC's with others who share the same goals. Or trading together to get bonus monies... whatever.
Before I joined this group I was in another group of just two members, myself and a friend. It was better than open, so much better, but even still it felt lonely. Space was empty when it should have had real people in it. But the small minority (who were very vocal and aggressive) made a large impact. I avoid OPEN because to me, it is a sewer of people who behave like animals. No respect, no considerations, no chill. Kill or be killed, there's no middle ground. This is just my opinion.
To put it plainly, hiding behind the excuse that Open PVP is an aspect of the game, is scummy juvenile and disgusting behavior. ESPECIALLY when the victim has put hours, days, weeks (and months even) into the ship they've dreamed of piloting only to be greeted with a buyback screen and an empty credit account.
Let's use the example that this person did not have extra money for buyback simply because he was new and didn't know better, probably felt safe because he earned his living and his ship by bounty hunting in RES/doing missions. He never let his shields get too low and got out quick when he ran into trouble.
So someone ran into him in a RES, saw him oblivious to anything that wasn't an NPC and decided to pounce. Why? Probably because someone kicked this persons dog, or ripped him off with a high insurance bill, or his GF dumped him. Whatever the reason, the deed was done. And now our PVE'er is reduced to a Sidewinder to start all over. A valuable lesson was learned, but it was a hard lesson. Will this person come back from it? Who knows, but his enjoyment of the game was just given a massive blow.
I've been blown up by players (not in this group) and I've played other space sims where it was worse (EVE).
I don't play EVE anymore... I cannot deal with bullying in any form and then having people laugh about it all over the internet makes it that much worse.
