Not having many friends who play ED, I appreciate the Mobius group very much

I was wondering, is it possible (given the current mechanics of the game) to work together with another commander on the same Kill mission (i.e. two players in the same instance, killing the same NPC Elite Anaconda?). Obviously you can't share the bounty, so I suppose you just have to take turns on getting the missions in the first place? If you follow a mate in SC and he drops into a USS, can you follow him into normal space using the wake scanner?
Has anyone managed it yet, and does anyone fancy having a go at some point?
A further question... is this what the 'Wings' feature I keep reading about is supposed to do? Or something else? While I'm overjoyed that its coming, I'm really not familiar with what that term actually means...
Have Cobra, will travel,
Byker