TorTorden wrote:One sure fire way to see if another player is in your instance is the bandwidth monitor (ctrl+b) But it's kind of immersion breaking.
You can also open up your chat menu and scroll once to the right. This will normally open up a menu through which you can send private messages to those on your friends list, but it will ALSO give you a list of ships in your instance that are player controlled (Any ship appearing above your friends list but without a name, i.e. "Vulture" "Asp" or "Anaconda".
I can take a screen shot of this to better illustrate, as I believe that most commanders are unaware of this feature.