I have mainly been watching this whole debacle from the sideline, apart from a few posts on FD's forum. After lots of thought on the matter I have decided not to request refund for several reasons:
1. I have REALLY looked forward to this game, and I want to play it (even with reduced privacy and longevity).
2. Given the refund procedure, it would result in a legal battle that I simply do not have the strength fight, let alone win.
3. I have invested heavily in my ability to play ED, including both PC upgrades, hotas (X55), furniture, and some other bits - a big portion of which will be pointless otherwise - and all this on a very low income (spent about a years savings..)
4. I have had a very rough summer regarding my personal life, and have been looking forward to ED as a momentary escape from some horrible memories.
so... I concluded that having to deal with online was the lesser of evils, and as I have a 60/60 fibre connection that should at least not be a problem in my end connectionwise.
Chances are I will spend a fair bit of my time in solo mode simply because of my mood, but in my more positive moments, I WILL scoot around among the stars flying the Mobius colors

Fly safe, and shoot straight, Commanders...